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Just a simple girl who likes to smile, read and write, help people out whenever I can. Snoopy's cool. All sorts of music are welcome. Big fan of action, as well as sci fi and romantic movies. Psychology is my world. Living in Philly, but always proud to be Dominican!

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Sunday, November 27, 2005

*-. Movie mania .-*




Ok so alguien me menciona Richard Ashcroft, k era lead singer the The Verve, de ahi me pongo a oir bitter sweet symphony y me acuerdo de one of my favorite movies, Cruel Intentions. I mean, i consider myself a big movie fan. Yeah yeah, i havent seen The Godfather o Clockwork Orange, and i like some silly ones like Breakfast Club (que none the less is a classic in its own right). Anyways, these are my top movies (en ningun orden especifico, and i might miss a few k i really like, so the list is far from complete!)



  1. Contact. You remember. Con Jodie Foster. de receiving la señal extraterrestre y build the machine y todo eso. Gotta love Jodie Foster.

  2. The Saint One of my fav. action movies. How to resist Val Kilmer? en cualquier de sus personajes!

  3. The Rock More action movies. Nicolas Cage y Sean Connery never looked so good. the whole Alcatraz deal. Aperisimo

  4. Teen Witch Diablo lo que yo daria to see that movie again. Yo soñaba con tene eso podere cuando carajita. Y el jevo ta buenisimo hehe.

  5. The Net. Cuando internet era algo nuevo, a big deal. De ahi fue que sacamos dike #pretorians. Barbaro those were the days. Sandra Bullock pocas veces ha actuado mejor. Que le paso?

  6. Matrix Claro que Matrix. Y no dike la primera nama . TODAS. Toditas. Its not just the action, special effects, or cool glasses people. Theres so much more to Matrix. Its about how people live. So immersed in their daily lives que they dont stop to think about what they want, need, should, could. STOP. THINK.

  7. Love actually Im a sentimental sucker what can I say. Y la manera que desarrollan la historia. El script es genial!

  8. All Bond movies Shaken. Not stirred Desde Sean Connery hasta Pierce Brosnan. Desde Dr. No hasta Die another day, pasando por Diamonds are forever y Octopussy.

  9. The neverending story. Bueno el que no se recuerde de esa movie. PAUPAU. Ahi les va el poster porciaca. Las bolas de cristal que contenían todas las memorias, el perro grandote k vuela, el pana ese de piedra with his baby. Too many things...

  10. Cruel Intentions Claro lo que uno siempre quiere. Que el tipo k es un P.I.M.P. se ponga mansito contigo y sea ur darling forever and ever hehe. OMG Ryan Phillipe. I LOVE RYAN PHILLIPE. De verdad que si hehe.

Le voy a poner un To be Continued... aqui porque toy segura seguria k me faltan mas pero hey tengo demasiado sueño pa darle mente a eso heh... :)





*-. Angels with silver wings .-*

Hoy alguien me dijo "loca mas te vale que esta noche este en tu blog". Lol and here it is. Aunque i know i know no publique nada de el dia de mi graduacion... pero que les puedo decir. ME CONVERTI EN LICENCIADA. omg... alguna gente *importante* no me llamo ese dia... o a bit late... pero AMEN. no hay mente. Anyways. Graduacion. I was kinda nervous heh. Pero recibir mi título. Very nice. Sali en el Listin Diario y todo haha. Y depue na pal Sherezade con mi familia. cuz yo y mi prima hermana hicimos la tesis juntas (we got 100, ueje ueje lol). Y na depue get ready pa la fiesta de flow. Mi tio es dike el dueño =P lol... sushi for picadera y mi mama se gano una caja de vinooo uau. lol. Y depue pa casa de Mich. Entre llamadas suspendidas y Cosmopolitans, el mino vaso y mi amigo Pollito... haha oh what a night. acabe bonding con una de las mujeres k mas adoro en el MUNDO. y no im not bi hehe. ANYWAYS. tonight.

So tonight. Mi papá cumplio 54 years old el 20 de nov. pero hoy se hizo una fiesta en mi casa. Digase, 70 invitados. Demasiada gente lol. OHHH que les digo. EL JUEVES PERDI MI CELULAR. MAYOR BUMMER. pero na amen la vida continua....
***ouch***
300 número telefónicos, mis foni ringers, my lady schedule (for those of u who know what that is), todas las fotos.. AY MI MADRE... k bulto. anyway

tonight era la party eta. Nada, ponerme toda *nice* pa k mi mama no me diga na. Una prima de mi mama me dijo "ven mi hija que tengo mucho que hablar contigo" ay papa. pero i survived. Depue un par de ofertas to save me de este party.. que un momento ponian Sinatra, otro The Doors y cuando viene a ver Juanes. Completely unpredictable. Anyways acabo en Blanc con mis panas Josue y Oliver que me presentan a 2 very old but loved friends... el Grey y la Fresita... very good friends hehehe... y nada depue pa Red Room k se llena de viejos per ota aperisimo... pa ver mis amigos del St. George... gotta love you guys! hehe muy cool muy cool... cant complain de
el weekend. :)

Wednesday, November 23, 2005

*-. Articulo Muy Interesante .-*

So ayer fue mi graduacion... wow señores soy Licenciada quien lo hubiera pensado hehe. Al medio dia hubo una comida, depue en la noche fui pa la fiesta de Flow en Taboo Bamboo y ended up en casa de Mich for our Grad Party. Oh what a night heh. But I'll talk about that otro dia. I was actually looking for how to spell 'necessary' en google and I stumbled on this article. I think its interesting enough to share it hehe. Me dio risa tambien. Nada we're all grown ups, and I hope you got your talk about "the birds and the bees" done with already =P



Is Sex Necessary? by Alan Farham

Fans of abstinence had better be sitting down. "Saving yourself" before the big game, the big business deal, the big hoedown or the big bakeoff may indeed confer some moral benefit. But corporeally it does absolutely zip. There's no evidence it sharpens your competitive edge. The best that modern science can say for sexual abstinence is that it's harmless when practiced in moderation. Having regular and enthusiastic sex, by contrast, confers a host of measurable physiological advantages, be you male or female. (This assumes that you are engaging in sex without contracting a sexually transmitted disease.) In one of the most credible studies correlating overall health with sexual frequency, Queens University in Belfast tracked the mortality of about 1,000 middle-aged men over the course of a decade. The study was designed to compare persons of comparable circumstances, age and health. Its findings, published in 1997 in the British Medical Journal, were that men who reported the highest frequency of orgasm enjoyed a death rate half that of the laggards. Other studies (some rigorous, some less so) purport to show that having sex even a few times a week has an associative or causal relationship with the following:


- Improved sense of smell After sex, production of the hormone prolactin surges. This in turn causes stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons in the brain's olfactory bulb, its smell center.

- Reduced risk of heart disease: In a 2001 follow-on to the Queens University study mentioned above, researchers focused on cardiovascular health. Their finding? That by having sex three or more times a week, men reduced their risk of heart attack or stroke by half. In reporting these results, the co-author of the study, Shah Ebrahim, Ph.D., displayed the well-loved British gift for understatement: "The relationship found between frequency of sexual intercourse and mortality is of considerable public interest."

- Weight loss, overall fitness: Sex, if nothing else, is exercise. A vigorous bout burns some 200 calories--about the same as running 15 minutes on a treadmill or playing a spirited game of squash. The pulse rate, in a person aroused, rises from about 70 beats per minute to 150, the same as that of an athlete putting forth maximum effort. British researchers have determined that the equivalent of six Big Macs can be worked off by having sex three times a week for a year. Muscular contractions during intercourse work the pelvis, thighs, buttocks, arms, neck and thorax. Sex also boosts production of testosterone, which leads to stronger bones and muscles. Men's Health magazine has gone so far as to call the bed the single greatest piece of exercise equipment ever invented. - Reduced depression: Such was the implication of a 2002 study of 293 women. American psychologist Gordon Gallup reported that sexually active participants whose male partners did not use condoms were less subject to depression than those whose partners did. One theory of causality: Prostoglandin, a hormone found only in semen, may be absorbed in the female genital tract, thus modulating female hormones.

- Pain-relief: Immediately before orgasm, levels of the hormone oxytocin surge to five times their normal level. This in turn releases endorphins, which alleviate the pain of everything from headache to arthritis to even migraine. In women, sex also prompts production of estrogen, which can reduce the pain of PMS.

- Less-frequent colds and flu: Wilkes University in Pennsylvania says individuals who have sex once or twice a week show 30% higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A, which is known to boost the immune system.

- Better bladder control: Heard of Kegel exercises? You do them, whether you know it or not, every time you stem your flow of urine. The same set of muscles is worked during sex.

- Better teeth: Seminal plasma contains zinc, calcium and other minerals shown to retard tooth decay. Since this is a family Web site, we will omit discussion of the mineral delivery system. Suffice it to say that it could be a far richer, more complex and more satisfying experience than squeezing a tube of Crest--even Tartar Control Crest. Researchers have noted, parenthetically, that sexual etiquette usually demands the brushing of one's teeth before and/or after intimacy, which, by itself, would help promote better oral hygiene.


So there you go. Shu. Behave like bunnies. hehehe. Como decia la profesora de terapia sexual, always wear a condom! A.k.a.: sin gorrito, no hay fiesta! lol

Saturday, November 19, 2005

*-. To find balance... .-*

Bueno toy singing "let the cables sleep" de Bush... es sad pero linda tambien...
Anyways decidi ecribir pq its saturday and 9am and i cant sleep. Eh normally id be up to eat, a las 2 por ahi. Y hoy abri los ojos como dos bombillitos at 8:06am. Eep. You gotta hate sunlight. Good news, exam date moved up to 5 de diciembre. Me llamo una gringa y me lo dijo ayer! Aunque that just means i gotta study harder. Y... *drums*

Me graduo este martes 22 de noviembre a las 10AM. Y Magna Cum Laude señores. =D ehe ehem.

Anyways, about the whole finding balance thing. Antes de ayer le taba diciendo a alguien como el problema mio es los extremes. O me quedo muy callada o hablo mas de la cuenta. O gasto mucho dinero o no lo uso para lo que necesito. O me inspiro full y amanezco haciendo un trabajo, or i leave a big project sin hacer for days and days. Igual fall for a guy too fast. Rayos que rapido. Y asi uno se la pasa, trying to find some sort of balance. Porque todo en exceso es malo señores. Todo. Otra baina es tambien que im used to putting others first. Im gonna turn into a selfish brat for a while hehe. A ver si things meet en algun punto medio. Think about myself. What I want. Need. For a change. That would definetly be a nice change.

Sunday, November 13, 2005

*-. weekend adventures .-*

Bueno el viernes I was all excited por el cumpleaños de una panita de la uni, en la zona, ya que el Jueves fuimos a Fridays con ella and we were talkin all about it. Anyways, me la pase en la tarde con mi hermana que se le doblo el tobillo. Im actually sorry for her... con todo y todo. Depue pa donde Katherine, apparently nos vamos juntas to study en el US! So much to do... so little time.

So, the party. Nada me baño juyendo pa coge donde Mich, y depue bucamo a Sheila. La baina es en la zona. We know k en la Arzobispo Meriño No. 407. Ok. Andamo con el chofer. A couple of ppl explain donde es la baina y ok dale paya. To make a long story short, duramos 45 minutos dando vueltas por la zona. Ehem. Nada mareadas ya de dar vueltas I call Mr. V, which i didnt want to pero nada como ultimo recurso. Amen llegamos. Youngest guy there was 25. Yay. hehehe. Nada Nomis wuz there, y Aldo y some other peeps. Ah si habiamos pasao por la Coolvita antes de ir. So comenzamo a beber, vodka, my fav. Cuando viene a ver me tan presentando a un chico de Inglaterra (que acento!), depue toy yo dandole terapia a some rock star... hmm haha... y running around con una jeva k i just met k le guta un panita k yo conozco ... risa y risa y risa y risa... ay dios mio...
que risa.

Depue de un rato, ok, pa
Praia. Taba alla Migui y umm some other guys amigos de nosotros. Most ppl que nos encontramos seemed like tenian un jumo heh. Not surprising en el sitio en la hora. Pero it was fun ay ay ay risas y risas... y bueno... hehe. Problem was next day. El dolor de cabeza mas grande en la historia del mundo. Me pase el dia entero mala. Eep. y umm me secuestraron como a las 10 pa Parkeo. Depue pa some shady shady place en la zona hehe. Crazy Pub. Pero it was GREAT pediamos music by La Ley, Oasis, Incubus, etc. etc. And somehow, nadie sabe como, acabe en Praia otra vez . hehehe. Llenisimo, esplotadisimo de gente. Pero aperisimo heh. Hasta me pusieron una cancion de lo 80's....

Don youuuu forget about me, i'll be alone, dancing, you know it baby...


Y na meng aperisimo hehehe. Me encontre a Janina, k it was her bday, tan linda. And most of all... i was smiling la noche entera. La musica cambio mucho. O sea, Parkeo = Regueton, Crazy Pub = rock, Praia = dance y umm poppy songs heh. Y bueno señores yo lo que gozo es la musica, the dancin... and prancin... hehehe. Tan lindos mis amigos :)

Thursday, November 10, 2005

*-. from the picture archives... .-*


mis girlas... hehe at Mer's bday... September 2003... Current status: Mariam no tiene vida pq ta de studyholic en la PUCMM (economia) but i love her! y Margaux hizo la tesis conmigo... technically havent heard of her since either.. (see you in Xmas cuz!)
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*-. Chronicles of my catastrophic mishaps in love finding - I .-*

What is it with me and foreigners ? I mean... carajo. Requisito number one para future attempts at dating: tiene que vivir donde yo este viviendo en ese momento.






Not Boston, Spain, Puerto Plata or Malibu.



That's just... not nice. Heh



Y maybe yo me lo buco. These geographic impossibilities. May a subconcious attempt at sabotaging the whole thing before it even begins. Maybe. No lo dudo. And even though all of these attemps havent been cataclismic in their making, al final y al cabo con que me quedo yo en good ol' Santo Domingo. Nothing. Nada. zip. And so the Chronicles begin...
With no necesary chronological order, I start with Boston.

As these things go, this particular person intrigued me. Dije, "oh, un gringo". hehehe. Turned out to be a very smart kid. Very interested in me, too. Somewhere in between James Dean the rebel, the way of the Beatles and the skinny ass of some skinny ask character you could think of. We created our own little world y todo. And then he was back in Gringolandia. The world didnt end. But i still missed his skinny ass.
Seems like such a long time ago... and still, every time que oigo Postal Service cant help but smile... :) and so, quite suddenly as it began, it was gone.

And Spain... diablo spain me dolio en verdad... fue de estas incredible things that only happens when you're riding the Heart of Gold, and your Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy tells you that the Improbability Drive has left you here. So one thing i know... this really cute guy adds me on Hi5 (si señores... tiene mas de un año la baina esa ya) AND NEXT THING YOU KNOW... me encuentro al tipo en el Parquesito [which i never go to] andando con mi ex [with whom i rarely hang out] and they turn out to be friends!! after that fue hearing my aunt tell me in Christmas how handsom he is... and something about Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind... apparently i have a place to stay if i ever visit Barcelona... *ehem*....

Puerto Plata... is a particularly long story... demasiado duró digo yo... another of those... completely hazardous and random coincidences... met his brother on a bus when i was 14... depue i dont even know... the thing went from flirty MSN conversations... to endless phonecalls... nunca fue a relationship per se... but i know at some point it felt like one. En verdad *como siempre* yo me hice muchas ilusiones, but after a while i was ok with the "you have your life, i have mine por su lao... cuando se pueda se puede, y cuando no amen" weirdish sort of thing... dunno but for a while it worked... Till he lied to me. Por que mi hermano, cual es la necesidad? Digame, mira we cant meet up, voy a ta con una jevita y ya. Pero no me haga el bulto. I never thought id be broken hearted... maybe it was the booze... Y UNA JEVA MA FEA... ay dio mio haha... Good thing was, diunavez borre to las fotos, deleted all the numbers, y AMEN. His loss.

Ya well if you've actually read up to this point might as well hear about Malibu. As enchanting as the city... as much of a free thinker, but unlike the city... completely down to earth kind of a guy. We met beside some port a poties... Eso mimo... lo baño de plastico portables thingies hehe.... Y I remember sayin... diablo y este tipo in his pj's... hehe... [ultra...miami...bonche...50k people... ok we can move on now] y nada next day i wuz minding my own business y *ring*ring*... y asi email this, email that. BAM. Se aparece el gringo en la isla almost if i had one of my three wishes by a Genie (hmm other two would be... to fly and... world peace?). Anyways, that was that. And yet... not quite... Pasaron dias... weeks... meses... and this gringo that came out of nowhere changed me so much... apparently i became his muse... And he got me porque... donde te vas a encontrar un dominicano con ojos verdes, super humilde, que hace yoga y tiene un vocabulario de big words haha and doesnt sound like a nerd saying them... [con un cuerpazo... ehem] that is completely head over heels for you... modestia aparte. :) Anyways to him... I say thank you. I am honored to be a source of inspiration for a future very famous writer.

Monday, November 07, 2005

*-. To be thankful .-*


La verdad que uno se pasa la vida wanting, searching, asking, looking... hoy hice el cliche de 'stop and smell the roses', which i do once in a while; y es bastante recomendado let me tell you. Me siento super feliz, con los mismos bumps de siempre pero con renovada esperanza. Y me puse a pensar lo agradecida que estoy with my friends. Señores, a pesar de todo... tanta gente que me quiere =P A mi de vez en cuando me da mi sad thing... como de pensar... i know a lot of ppl pero la mayoria es nama de saludar, o salir on weekends keseyoke. Bullshit!

Im thankful de esa gente around me ahora mismito. De este weekend no les puedo decir... ohh i went to the best party... ohhh me encontre a fulanito... ohh i had a date... but i can say... i laughed, talked, shared, called, was with... my friends! And me siento k el fin de semana fue SUPER!! Sabiendo k esa gente is there... :) De algun modo u otro i was in contact with all the ppl i call my friends this weekend y nah... its a really nice feeling. Porque son la gente k you can wake up at 3am, y aunque te tiren un coñaso they'll wonder whats wrong. Las que igualito llamas at 3pm pa hablar porquerias cuz ur bored. O pa contarles el etrallon k te acabas de dar. Con las k you dont need el ultimo chisme, una ropa chula o un super party to have a blast. Thank you guys!! :P~ Love ya